And so I think to myself: whatever we do, whatever we say, however we act, should be authentic to who we are. A story, however edited and rewritten, should ring true. So I strive to live a life authentic to what I feel, and what I believe to be true. But, by my nature and because I am human, I succeed marginally at best. I get caught up in constructing authenticity. And then I lose it. I give in to the belief that this is what they’ll want to read from me or this sounds better than the way it really happened or if I told them what I really think, they wouldn’t take me seriously.
Do you ever do that, rearrange your thoughts around what you believe people will respond to?
Do you blog for the bandwagon? Post about things that you believe will initiate comments and page views and tweets, or do you blog about things that really matter to you, the writer?
Do you edit your thoughts and words at the expense of your true voice?
On the one hand, you write for your audience. You write to give them a thought, a moment illustrated, a word of encouragement, a benefit from your experience. But we have to strike that balance between sharing our gift with others and exercising our gift simply because it is what we are called to do.
I’m convicted by the thought that when we write, we should not just write about writing, but about our lives.
As a very wise professor I know recently explained,
My blog is a blog about writing, but it is also a blog for my writing.
We can lose that authenticity and integrity for our work in a variety of ways, whether through writing about writing to avoid writing truth, or editing our thoughts and experiences to garner attention.
Here are a few posts from the interwebs that I appreciate for their authenticity.
The best reflection out of the many that were shared over the past week.
What good is a relationship without confrontation and commitment?
Is it right, or does it just feel right? How my generation deals with morality.
Speaking of Story Conference, I only heard about it recently, but I’m heartbroken that I can’t be there. On the other hand, I still get to connect with this blogging guy and this blogging girl for an early coffee date tomorrow morning. It’ll be great to finally meet them in person!
And finally, a friend and I are starting a writer’s group in the Elgin/Chicago Suburbs. Are you interested? Join here.
Have a good weekend, friends.